It’s also my job to request payment upon meeting them. Kidding - don’t you dare ask that last one. It’s my job to tell clients my policy I require payment up front. What follows are the building blocks of gay male sex, hopefully providing acceptable answers to all your questions about doggy-style, tops, bottoms, and who pays on a date. When a friend blurted out, 'You can have sex facing each other?!' after we'd finished watching a racy sex scene on HBO's tragically short-lived series Looking, I knew it was time to take a stand.
I don't know about you, but all I got from my health class in Catholic school was a small stick of Old Spice deodorant and the unsettling feeling that Jesus would know when I masturbated. The question of what do I want to do with my life really was never addressed in your younger years because you assumed there was no future for you. Ever hear of a 'no promo homo' law? It's a heinous education law that expressly prohibits teachers from discussing LGBT issues - including sexual health, which can lead LGBT youth to feel invisible, anxious, or depressed. Since gay marriage is a relatively recent thing (and it came suddenly and unexpectedly) you never grew up assuming that you would ever get married, have kids, or build a home. It's not surprising, considering the lack of gay representation in entertainment and the disturbing void of sex education in schools.
Since being with women I’m more into finger banging overall - this is helpful if a guy has um. (But sex also generally takes longer with women). The basic mechanics of gay male sex remain a mystery to many. It is easier to have sex all day with women.
